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				<title>Do you feel threatened by the holidays?</title>				
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	For many of us&amp;nbsp;just the&amp;nbsp;thought of the holidays&amp;nbsp;makes us break out into a sweat,&amp;nbsp;raise our blood pressure,&amp;nbsp;trigger shallow breathing&amp;nbsp;with every nerve fiber on high alert to fight, flight or freeze &amp;ndash; the stress r...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 14:19:57 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>What&apos;s up with all the apocalypse movies?</title>				
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	Along with Thanksgiving we are being served a darker world view with two new apocalypse movies, 2012&amp;nbsp; and&amp;nbsp;the Road. These movies which rip the world apart are flourishing at the box office. There are two possible explanations. Either we ...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 12:14:41 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Feeling stuck? Try the opposite approach</title>				
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	When you feel stuck in your life, whether a mindset or a physical problem, you can often solve it with the counterintuitive. When you&amp;nbsp;practice&amp;nbsp;considering things from the opposing perspective, the counterintuitive will become more intuit...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 13:28:24 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>How to overcome technology overload</title>				
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	We live a life of jarring contradictions which trigger us to become crazy busy. On the one hand we are all wired up with technology and that surge of adrenalin allowing us to accomplish 24/7. On the other hand, we are hardwired to live in a more n...
				
				
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				<category>Stress Addiction</category>
				
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				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 13:04:36 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Tips for holiday togetherness</title>				
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	The holidays are a tension of opposites: happily anticipated from a distance, yet fraught with stress as they approach. The ideals of the party, the celebration, the clinking of glasses are much more powerful than their reality-based counterparts,...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 11:04:30 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Go green with re-gifting for the holidays</title>				
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	A huge stressor ominously looming&amp;nbsp;to darken the holiday spirit&amp;nbsp;is&amp;nbsp;gift giving during these hard economic times. According to a recent Consumer Reports survey 2/3 of US citizens will cut back on their holiday expenses and 36% admit t...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 10:11:16 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Hope can be a hindrance</title>				
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	Too much of even a good thing can be harmful. For example, too many vitamins or too much exercise can be toxic. This principal also applies to the most beneficial of human emotions &amp;ndash; hope.

	Hope is the feeling that we can have what we wan...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 12:36:59 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Jealousy can be a blessing in disguise</title>				
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	We should not feel guilty about having a jealous heart. The closer we get to people the more likely we are to feel jealous or become the object of envy. Human beings are competitive creatures who vie for the top of the hierarchy. Even Mother There...
				
				
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				<category>Oprah</category>
				
				<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 10:06:57 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>What monsters are trying to tell us</title>				
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	Frankenstein, Dracula, the Werewolf, witches and other monstrous creatures have titillated the imagination for decades, spawned many novels like the current Twilight series and continue to make fashion and aesthetic statements, including the lates...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 10:57:39 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Fall Sapping Your Energy? 5 Tips to Fall Back On</title>				
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	The winds of seasonal&amp;nbsp;allergies are blowing. There is plenty of orange going around from falling leaves out here in the East to carved pumpkins and mums on doorsteps. In color therapy orange is the hue of cheerfulness. Therefore I expect to b...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 12:35:47 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Clean scent linked to better behavior</title>				
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	Clean out the clutter and clean out your life, cleanliness is next to Godliness and now in a brand new study in Psychological Science lead author Katie Liljenquist claims that all you have to do is spritz some citrus-scented Windex in a room and p...
				
				
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				<category>The Smell of Virtue</category>
				
				<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 10:13:10 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Doing everything right, but no weight loss</title>				
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	You step up on the scale, hold your breath and the moment of truth seems like a big fat lie: you have not lost one ounce. In fact, you gained a pound! You step up again, more lightly this time, to counteract the force of gravity, but the numbers a...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 13:50:29 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>The world is scary, so who needs Halloween?</title>				
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	Even though the world is a scary place&amp;nbsp;from the chilling economy to the menace of terrorism, Halloween celebrations are on the rise. This year&amp;rsquo;s costumes are estimated as an almost five-billion dollar retail celebration, down from last ...
				
				
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				<category>Lynn Schofield Clark</category>
				
				<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 13:28:33 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Divvying up friends after a split</title>				
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	When a relationship breaks up, it might make it easier on their friends if they were part of the divorce settlement similar to the divvying up of assets, children and pets. Visitation rights could be neatly specified. Consequently, friends would n...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 09:18:20 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>It&apos;s time to initiate a self-stimulus package</title>				
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				People go through great lengths to achieve contentment like fasting and getting all fired up in sweat lodges &amp;ndash; paying thousands of dollars &amp;ndash; to attract success and happiness, a secret they have to pay for.&amp;nbsp; Unfortunately, it doesn&amp;rs...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 11:38:51 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Try on a new identity this Halloween</title>				
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				Halloween provides an ample opportunity for costuming and partying. Many of us wear costumes that are outrageous, encouraging us to try on different identities. Men dress as women and women dress as men &amp;ndash; the yin and yang of things. In addition...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 13:58:00 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>The surprising effects of posture on perception</title>				
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				Parents and teachers have always&amp;nbsp; reminded us to sit up tall or stand straight. &amp;ldquo;You present better to others&amp;rdquo; or &amp;ldquo;People will reckon with what you have to say.&amp;rdquo; However, the latest research from Ohio University by psycho...
				
				
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				<category>Richard Petty</category>
				
				<pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2009 15:01:07 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>How to get more comfortable with comfort foods</title>				
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				Feeling stressed - who doesn&amp;rsquo;t reach for comfort food? Of course, you feel better short term, but when the euphoria is over, guilt sets in. Food and mood correlate highly; the right comfort food will go the distance. An important ingredient whe...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 11:56:54 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>How to overcome the dreaded weight loss plateau</title>				
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				You go on a balanced diet, exercise for an hour daily and lose weight every week, but then you plateau, even worse you&amp;nbsp;gain a couple of pounds. Frustrated and puzzled, you feel bad about your body image - a recipe for disaster. Sliding down the ...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 13:16:52 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Poor sleep takes a heavy toll on the brain</title>				
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				No one brags to the boss about how much sleep he got the night before; all-nighters are common during finals.&amp;nbsp; Maybe it&amp;rsquo;s time to change this warrior mentality because new research from Dr. David Holtzman of Washington University School of...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 12:23:33 -0700</pubDate>
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