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				<title>The COR</title>				
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	The last couple days have been hectic. I&amp;#39;ve been setting up the site and blog for one of the new books and downloading software to convert swf to avi, so that I can post the videos on Wordpress. In the process, I somehow lost sound on my compu...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 10:57:28 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Basic life concept questions (blc&apos;s)</title>				
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	All right, now that I&amp;#39;ve shared the intro to the book, it&amp;#39;s time to start to share the COR-system. This is the system to use to make decisions. The system can be applied to anything, including dating and relationships. Start by answering y...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 12:47:05 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Excerpt #2 from new book</title>				
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	Backtracking some, while I was busily applying my choice-making process to all aspects of my life, I got a strong urge to write a novel. (This occurred roughly five years before I wrote God is a Woman: Dating Disasters.) I used my decision-making ...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 11:16:37 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Latest cosmo article</title>				
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	The cover of the latest &lt;em&gt;Cosmo&lt;/em&gt; asks, &amp;quot;What do men think during sex?&amp;quot; (Again.) Really? A whole article for &amp;quot;Whoop-eee!! I can&amp;#39;t believe this is happening!&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
				
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				<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 12:07:35 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Excerpt #1 from new book</title>				
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	So this column has moved quite a bit away from what it was originally supposed to be (50 Things You Don&amp;#39;t Know About Every Guy). It will get back to that at some point but there are more important items to discuss ahead of such things. I just ...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 22:56:46 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Why surveys suck</title>				
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				Flickr image from threedaymonkLast week was National Singles Week. (I was out on too many dates to post... as far as you know...) I was inundated with emails about various surveys and stats about singles. If you&apos;ve read God, you know I can&apos;t stand su...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 16:58:33 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Book gets filmed!</title>				
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				For those who don&apos;t know, this is my book. A USC film grad student and fan asked if he could film part of it for his project. Of course, I told him he could and actually had the scene he wanted already written as part of a screenplay. He filmed the &amp;...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 12:02:46 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Surprise! we&apos;re not mind readers</title>				
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				Don&apos;t know; no credit for on web.Woman are always commenting that guys are clueless; yet, despite this realization, the fairer sex certainly performs acts that would make you think women think we men are not just clueless--we&apos;re mind readers!Ah, no. ...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 10:59:59 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Vacation</title>				
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				<!--  -->&lt;p&gt;I&apos;ve been traveling a lot and will be in Nova Scotia the next two weeks. (Lots of camping and stuff; no computers.) When I get back, I&apos;ll be back from my vacation here, too. Cool? Cool. Until then.&lt;/p&gt;
				
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				<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 14:03:51 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Do you sleep with people you like?</title>				
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				This is a pretty simple, short notion; yet, I don&apos;t think it really gets much real thought.Women will ask me why am so good in bed. It always somewhat puzzles me. I&apos;m not good or bad in bed, as far as I know. The last woman I slept with asked me, onc...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 22:03:40 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>5) We&apos;re everywhere</title>				
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				Carla Michele on flickr5) Have you just given up on meeting the right guy or even a guy? Do you feel as hopeless as this jogger? Do you want to just throw in the towel? Please... shut up!It drives men crazy when women complain they can&apos;t meet a guy. ...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 21:59:32 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Another guest post</title>				
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				One reason I haven&apos;t been writing too much here these days is because I keep getting invited to do guest posts at other places. (What can I say? People keep inviting me to write posts.) But that doesn&apos;t mean you can&apos;t read me somewhere. Here&apos;s the la...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 20:58:05 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Where have I been?</title>				
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				The logo says it all!Good question. Busy is pretty much the only answer. God was voted a best teen/tween book recently and I did some tips for the &amp;quot;Toilet Paper Entrepenuer.&amp;quot;http://www.radicalparenting.com/2009/06/15/50-best-books-for-teens...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2009 08:09:38 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Do you make good choices? now you have a system</title>				
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				Do you make good or bad choices? Do you feel like you don&apos;t have any choices? Do you know how to change that feeling; how to make good choices? My new site is up--it will display motivational speeches I create as flash presentations. The first one is...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 00:21:00 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Part 2 with alan roger currie</title>				
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				&amp;nbsp;(Continued from last week; the rest of the interview with Alan Roger Currie. Alan is the author of the popular paperback Mode One: Let The Women Know What You&apos;re REALLY Thinking, as well as his most recent paperback, Upfront and Straightforward...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 23:30:56 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Alan roger currie: the interview, part 1 of 2</title>				
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				Alan Roger CurrieThis is an interview I&amp;rsquo;ve been wanting to give for a while and I finally got around to it. I want to thank the interviewee for his extreme patience. Alan Roger Currie is the author of the popular paperback Mode One: Let The Wom...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 00:53:09 -0700</pubDate>
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				Nothing this week because I&apos;m working hard on a great interview with Alan Roger Curie, an author, radio personality, and relationship expert. Be up next week. If I&apos;m not writing something one week, it means I&apos;m working hard on something for the next....
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 12:27:55 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Heaven can&apos;t wait (interview, part 2)</title>				
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				&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;www.heavendates.com is a new dating site that mixes online dating with events. It&apos;s about time someone came up with that idea! Here&apos;s the second part of my interview with the co-founders; currently, you can sign up for free:&amp;nbsp;Co...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 11:13:34 -0700</pubDate>
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				Everyone thinks when you&apos;re an expert on a topic, you have all the answers and never make a mistake. Even better, people love to see it when you screw up as an authority on a topic. I like screwing up myself, too; it gives me plenty of good, funny st...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 10:17:33 -0700</pubDate>
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				&amp;nbsp;One reason I wrote God, which you know if you listened to my latest radio interview, was because so much advice just targets one area. Some books discuss how to get dates. Others discuss sex and better sex. If you can&apos;t get a date, what&apos;s the g...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2009 14:22:51 -0700</pubDate>
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