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				<title>Addiction - the story of Irene Vilar</title>				
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				photo&amp;nbsp;credit:irenevilar.comReviewing books is generally not something most journalists do in their columns on a recurring basis. We do gladly review books for our colleagues and for other professionals we have met in our line work. It is our ple...
				
				
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				<title>You&#39;ve grown as a person, he hasn&#39;t - the key to getting your life together in sync</title>				
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				photo&amp;nbsp;credit:awilliamhopperBuilding a relationship with someone you love takes time and energy but it is worth the investment. Once you have the basics down pat, life should be comfortable. Occasional arguments and disagreements notwithstanding,...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 15:01:23 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>The real key to happy holidays</title>				
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				Thanksgiving on a tropical isle? Christmas Eve watching fireworks over the Caribbean? At a ski lodge in front of a fireplace on New Year&amp;rsquo;s Day?&amp;nbsp; Spending the holidays relaxing instead of stressed? Yes!! &amp;nbsp;The key to spending a stress-f...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 17:02:19 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Military Spouses: How to Cope With Stress</title>				
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				photo credit: Fort Hood SentinelA project close to Michelle Obama&apos;s heart is the well-being of military spouses. She has held roundtable discussions where she has listened &amp;nbsp;to the personal stories of military spouses at Fort Bragg, women and men...
				
				
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				<category>Michelle Obama</category>
				
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 16:09:38 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Choosing the right charity - Everything&apos;s Personal, Nothing&apos;s Sacred</title>				
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				As the holiday season makes it&apos;s inevitable way towards us, I am barraged daily by charities. By mail, at the supermarket, by phone; everyone has a cause that needs my money. All of the causes are good ones, from helping to prevent children&amp;rsquo;s d...
				
				
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				<category>Kristen Houghton</category>
				
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 05:09:53 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Marrying your best friend&apos;s ex</title>				
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				photo credit:istock.wowowowRemember back in high school when your best friend broke up with a boy you liked? All that agonizing about what you would do if that boy asked you out?How long should you wait after the break-up before you could let him kno...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 15:51:00 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>A happiness key for a successful relationship with yourself</title>				
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				photo credit:awilliamhopperphotographyMy friend meteorologist John Elliott of CBS news reminded me today that this week has been designated as The Pursuit of Happiness Week.&amp;nbsp;This makes it a perfect time to use the &amp;nbsp;happiness key that &amp;nbsp;...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 15:32:09 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>The Happiness Keys - living successfully</title>				
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				What exactly are &amp;copy;Happiness Keys? Doors need to be unlocked; so does happiness. Sometimes a lock is so rusted that it takes a tremendous effort to clean away the rust so the key can turn properly. And sometimes you have the wrong key and you hav...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 08:49:47 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Your breasts are ten years younger than you are and other stories</title>				
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				photo credit: awilliamhopper photography&amp;nbsp;Did you know that your breasts are ten years younger than the rest of your body? It makes sense since puberty and breasts don&amp;rsquo;t really show up for at least the first decade of life, but I had to lea...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 06:48:46 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Why he won&#39;t commit to a serious relationship</title>				
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				photo credit: AWilliamHopperHas this happened to you? You are part of a fabulous, attractive couple. Your friends tell you with a touch of friendly envy that you both turn heads wherever you go. Your sex life is incredibly good; you&amp;rsquo;re compatib...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 16:27:39 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Who&apos;s sexy? You are!</title>				
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				photo credit:GlamourMagazine/myfbnsWhat&apos;s sexy? You are and you should realize it. Unfortunately, if you ask most women if there is something about her body she would like to change you will get answers galore!Women say:&amp;ldquo;I&amp;rsquo;d like-a smalle...
				
				
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				<category>Kristen Houghton</category>
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 15:05:42 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Sandra Bullock - the key to happiness is being &apos;selfish.&apos; She&apos;s right!</title>				
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				photo credit:msn.entertainmen.Actor Sandra Bullock says she &apos;always puts herself first and doesn&apos;t worry what anyone else thinks.&apos;&amp;nbsp;&apos;I never did anything according to what anyone else wanted. That&apos;s why I think I am happy. I have to fight every s...
				
				
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				<category>And Then I&apos;ll Be Happy</category>
				
				<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 16:38:34 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Remember, Hetty? A Hallowe&#39;en Story by CK Houghton</title>				
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				nationalghosthunters/photo/scot&amp;nbsp;&amp;ldquo;Look, oh Hetty, look! Isn&amp;rsquo;t that sweet-she looks so sweet! A fairy princess waiting for her prince to come! Oh! Can you see her, Hetty?&amp;rdquo;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ldquo;Yes, yes, Deirdre, I can see her.&amp;rdquo...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 08:15:59 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Women, your intelligence is not measured by your cup size! Everything&apos;s Personal, Nothing&apos;s Sacred</title>				
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				photo courtesyVanity Fair/linYou have to give the scientific community credit. They keep coming up with interesting topics to examine, no pun intended. One of the best was the study that asked the question: &amp;ldquo;Do big-breasted women have lower IQs...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 17:34:34 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Halloween is fun for adults too</title>				
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				HappyHallowe&apos;en!Dressing up as someone else can be fun and interesting for couples. If you&amp;rsquo;re invited to a party where costumes are expected, you might like to dress as a couple from your favorite movie, Broadway show, or book. Through the year...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 17:46:06 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>An interdependent relationship - will this work for you?</title>				
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				There are as many types of relationships between men and women as there are men and women themselves. What works for one couple may not always work for another. No two couples are alike when it comes to how they choose to create their partnership.An ...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 16:50:53 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>The art of happy step-parenting</title>				
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				You&amp;rsquo;re in love, you&amp;rsquo;re getting married; life looks good and beautiful. There&amp;rsquo;s only one minor hitch; besides becoming a new husband or wife you&amp;rsquo;re going to become an instant Dad or Mom.&amp;nbsp;The job becomes even more difficult...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 14:46:01 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>No Woman Diets Alone-There&apos;s always a man behind her eating a donut!</title>				
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				It&amp;rsquo;s difficult to lose weight when you&amp;rsquo;re around a man who is exactly the same weight, give or take two pounds, as he was in college. A man who can put his jeans on over a pair of sweat pants and not look like the Michelin tire man, a man...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 18:31:13 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>When he says &quot;It&#39;s Me, Not You,&quot; he is telling the truth!</title>				
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				It is the classic break-up statement. Your guy is telling you that there&amp;rsquo;s a problem in your relationship and he needs some space, that maybe you two should date other people. When you ask, stunned, &amp;ldquo;why, what did I do,&amp;rdquo; he responds...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 16:56:18 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>The importance of make-up sex</title>				
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				You had a major league, no-holds-barred, fight. You both used words like sharpened weapons; feelings are not only hurt, they&apos;re ripped to shreds and in the calm after the storm you are mad as hell. You fume for days. The last thing you want is physic...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 05:25:03 -0700</pubDate>
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