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				<title>Cosmo Scientific Research Decodes Men&apos;s Secret Language</title>				
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				One thing I love about writing a relationship column is that people now bring me incredible relationship information. From different sources, I&amp;rsquo;ve received that Tucker Max book free, a study about naming &amp;hellip;personal organs (also free), and...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 14:25:21 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>What I hate about online dating</title>				
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				Photo by Maggie Smith&amp;nbsp;My friend is on some dating websites. I know exactly what she is going through because not only have I been on dating websites myself, I now view her matches, read the forwarded emails she sends me, and occasionally when bo...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 20:18:26 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Secrets to a successful setup</title>				
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				Photo by FreeDigitalPhotos.net&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;I went to a wedding this weekend. As weddings go, it was pretty&amp;nbsp; fawesome:&amp;nbsp; the actual ceremony was less than 10 minutes, the food was good, there was a keg of Guinness, and the men were sporting ki...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 21:42:25 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Ask Elizabeth Ann:  I hate my friend&apos;s girlfriend</title>				
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				Photo by Elwood W. McKay IIII haven&amp;rsquo;t done an Ask Elizabeth Ann article for a while. Part of that has been due to the fact that I have not been receiving&amp;nbsp; emails asking for my advice&amp;hellip;.I&amp;rsquo;m assuming because you, Loyal Readers, h...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 21:13:50 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>An Immodest Proposal:  The new Women&apos;s Lib</title>				
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				Photo by Danilo RizzutiYesterday, my boyfriend was telling me to do something. I&amp;rsquo;m pretty sure he wanted me to take my cup from the living room to the kitchen sink, but I can&amp;rsquo;t swear to that, as I had tuned out because that is what (unint...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 11:31:54 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Bar lessons about hotness</title>				
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				The middle one is not me.My boyfriend was at a strip club tonight, leaving me footloose and fancy free. (Not to worry, it was for a Bachelor&amp;rsquo;s party. He doesn&amp;rsquo;t normally frequent strip clubs&amp;hellip;.that I know of. Although, the founder o...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 01:16:11 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>How do you treat your Ex?</title>				
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				The Ex You&apos;d Sex. Photo by Tina PhillipsMy ex boyfriend invited me over to his house this weekend. No, not like that, we have dinner or go to each other&amp;rsquo;s house from time to time, for barbeques or parties. He tends to show up especially when he...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 21:39:42 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Flattery, thy name is Online Dating</title>				
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				Prettiest eye ever. Photo by Danilo Rizzuti&amp;nbsp;I have been online dating, off and on, for the past (almost) four years. I have been hit on through emails and IMs,&amp;nbsp; at speed dating events, at work conferences, at amusement parks, at bars, at ch...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 21:21:29 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Established Men Review: Do you need a Sugar Daddy?</title>				
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				Photo by Salvatore VuonoYou readers know I try to stay on top of the current dating trends. So when a sugar daddy dating service, EstablishedMen.com, contacted me, I was more than interested in interviewing their CEO, Simone Dadoun-Cohen.I&amp;rsquo;m no...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 18:58:08 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Who cheats more: Men or Women?</title>				
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				Photo by Dynamite ImagerySomeone recently asked me (as I am the expert on relationships) who cheats more&amp;mdash;men or women?I did an extensive informal survey (again, I know how much you love my informal surveys.&amp;nbsp; Really, I know an impressive nu...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 21:24:34 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>60 Second Lover</title>				
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				A lady recently contacted me asking if I would review her book, and post the review in my column. I actually love it when people who read my column randomly email me at troubledanger@gmail.com&amp;nbsp; and wish more people would do it more often, hint, ...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 09:20:03 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>What&apos;s in a name?</title>				
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				Photo by Federic StevaninYou guys know the penis game? No, not the one where you go to a restaurant with a group of friends and each person has to say it louder than the last until you get kicked out.&amp;nbsp; Although that is a fun game. To you.&amp;nbsp; ...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 21:17:43 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>How to pick up guys</title>				
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				Photo by Chris Sharp&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;I wrote an article recently on how guys can pick up women in bars, largely based on my interview with Tito, a trendy bar bouncer and aspiring sociologist.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;During the interview, I also...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 22:47:03 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Boxing with stereotypes: What Pepsi tells us about ourselves</title>				
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				&amp;quot;Cowboy Girl&amp;quot; Photo by Bob Lowe&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;A loyal reader sent me&amp;nbsp;this&amp;nbsp;link&amp;nbsp;. The link is from NPR not because I am a dirty Commie, but because she is, I am sure. You can probably find the story all over the internet, though&amp;...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 22:49:31 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>How people, regardless of gender, sabotage their relationships</title>				
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				Photo by Maggie SmitheHarmony&amp;rsquo;s email marketing campaign is geared towards women, no doubt about it. The email I received this week had links to 6 date-related articles, 5 of which had pictures of women on them, and had titles like &amp;ldquo;Date ...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 21:33:08 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Visual stimulation:  What could be better?</title>				
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				Photo by Andy NewsonMy boyfriend likes to send me links from Prager University. At first, I think he felt I would find them helpful, but after an evening of me reading the transcripts out loud and alternately&amp;nbsp; laughing, shaking my head, or sighi...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 23:06:44 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Practicing the art of Why Men Love Bitches</title>				
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				By Salvatore Vuono&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;It&amp;rsquo;s no secret that I am fascinated by self help books, in any capacity. I don&amp;rsquo;t read a huge amount of them (the guys at my work do, I&amp;rsquo;m more of a &amp;ldquo;read for pleasure&amp;rdquo; kind of gal. If you&amp;rsq...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2009 00:22:58 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>How to pick up girls in a bar</title>				
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				Picture by Nicholas Tarling&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;My friend Tito works as a bouncer at a popular bar/nightclub. It&amp;rsquo;s located near the university, central to shopping and unfortunately very, very popular at night. (Seriously. I once went to visit him, not ...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 14:45:35 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>First date blunders you can&apos;t recover from</title>				
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				Photo by Federico StevaninE-harmony keeps sending me emails. I created a login four years ago, on a lark &amp;hellip;well, actually because someone told me their assessment was fantastic, matching you up with people perfect for you.I never got to find ou...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 21:01:40 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Do you condone cuddles in your relationship?</title>				
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				Photo by Graeme Weatherston&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;I don&amp;rsquo;t generally get political in these columns.But then, today, I saw this:&amp;nbsp;Amazing video of some political guy declaring all pornography is homosexual If y...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 22:17:23 -0700</pubDate>
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